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#8 Leading with Love: How to Serve Others Without Losing Yourself

Season #1

Hey friend, have you ever felt like serving others has left you drained, depleted, or even resentful? I’ve been there too. I’ll never forget sitting on the edge of my bed after another 14-hour day, completely empty. I had nothing left to give—not to my family, not to my ministry, not even to myself. That night, I realized something had to change. In this episode, we’ll explore how to shift from people-pleasing to purpose-serving, and from burnout to balance, so you can rediscover the joy of leading with love—without losing yourself in the process.

If you’ve ever felt like serving others has left you running on empty, this episode is for you. Together, we’ll explore how to shift from people-pleasing to purpose-serving, and from burnout to balance.

💭 Favorite Quote “Serving others doesn’t mean neglecting yourself. It means leading with love, living with balance, and building boundaries that empower you to thrive.”

📖 Key Scripture John 13:1-5

✨ Key Takeaways

  • Lead with love and humility—not burnout.
  • Set boundaries that sustain your energy and your impact.
  • Follow Jesus’ example: pour out, then pull away to rest.
  • Pause before saying yes: “Is this truly mine to do?”
  • Serve from a place of fullness, not depletion.

🪞 Reflection Questions
-Where in my life am I serving from fullness—and where am I running on empty?
-What specific boundaries or rhythms could I create this week to protect my peace and joy? -Who in my circle could I invite to share the load and grow alongside me?

💡 Listener Action Step

🎶 Need a boost? Check out my Spotify playlist, *Faith Over Fear: Courage on Repeat*, for songs that inspire courage and clarity as you lead with love.

💡 Feeling overwhelmed? Download my free guide, Stop the Overwhelm: From Chaos to Clarity in Just 15 Minutes a Day, and start creating space for what truly matters. https://bit.ly/RevJStopOverwhelm

🌐 Visit me at revjulietspencer.com/home for devotionals, leadership tools, and updates that will inspire your journey.

📸 Follow me on Instagram @rev_juliet_spencer for daily encouragement, behind-the-scenes inspiration, and real talk about leading with love.

Next week, we’ll dive into Strength in the Struggle—so stay tuned for more insights to help you lead with love and grace!